How to Make a Girl Horny – a Guide to Sexual Arousal

11 March 2021

putri cinta How to Make a Girl Horny a Guide to Sexual Arousal

Most men will be thinking why they need to get their girl horny because a girl will always be horny when a man gets sexually aroused, right? You are wrong and if you have this kind of thought process, then you either don’t have any experience with girls or your girlfriend, wife, or sex partners had a very bad time in bed with you though they won’t say it to your face. 

As a girl, I can tell you that when a man gets horny, the girl doesn’t need to feel the same way. You know what we girls want from our men to turn us on. However, from my experience, I can tell most men have no clue as to what turns a girl on. If you want to make your girl happy by having sex, you have to turn her on first. 

Now, men must realize that making a girl horny is no rocket science. If you approach it correctly, then you can make a girl horny quite easily. I know you want to know the secret of making a girl horny from a girl. So, here it is, I will tell you everything on how you can make your girl horny through this comprehensive guide. So, read it till the end so that you can make her happy in bed. 

Understanding the Sexual Arousal

No, it won’t be a boring anatomy class but I think you should know about sexual arousal not only for your partner but also for yourself. If you understand sexual arousal, then you can approach to turn on your partner with a wiser mind. So, here you need to know two concepts of sex drive, SES and SIS. 

SES (Sexual Excitement System)

Everyone has a system through which he or she gets sexually aroused. It can be a song, or a certain person, a certain move in bed, a certain smell, and such other things. Whenever you find any element of your sexual excitement system near you, you will start feeling horny. So, you have to find out more about the SES of your girlfriend or wife. Most men have no clue about the SES of their wife or girlfriend. Making her horny will become a cakewalk for you as you learn more about her SES. So, you should never ignore it.

SIS (Sexual Inhibition System)

Now just like SES makes you horny, SIS is the opposite of it. Those things are a part of SIS which turns you off sexually. Yes, stress can be one of the biggest reasons why your partner may struggle to get sexually aroused. Apart from that, any childhood trauma or abuse could play a big part in her troubles with her sex life. So, as a partner, you should first try to understand her SIS and learn about her SES. In this way, you will have a greater understanding of your partner. Also, you will be able to get her sexually aroused very quickly. 

How to Make Your Girl Horny

You now have a fairly great idea as to how your partner’s sex drive works. I can guess now you are itching to know how you can make her horny easily. For that, first I will give you simple basic tips that you can utilize to make her horny. So, let’s take a look at what those tips are;

Avoid SIS

You already know that some things turn your partner off. It is called SIS or sexual inhibition system. So, you have to learn about her SIS and try to avoid doing things that will activate her SIS. Otherwise, it can be a huge hindrance to your partner’s sexual arousal. 

Encourage SES

Just like her inhibitions, some things will also excite her sexually. It is called the sexual excitement system. So, you have to do things or create the ambience in your bedroom that will activate her SES. It will surely help you to get her turned on easily. 

Respect Her Desires and Respond to Her Initiations

At times, you might be in the mood and she might not want to have sex. It happens on many occasions. It doesn’t always have to be when you feel horny she must feel the same as well. That is why you should respect her desires. If she is not in the mood, never force her. Also, you should try to notice initiations which are signs and signal she will give when she is feeling horny. At that time, look to respond to her initiations because as a girl, I can tell you that girls love to have men with them in bed who can respond to her initiations. It just turns a woman on more. 

Things to Do to Get Your Girl Horny

Now, you have the idea of what you can do to get your girl horny. You should know that these are basic things. What I am about to tell you now is the things you need to do to get your girlfriend horny easily. If you do them, you can rest assured you will surely have your girl ready to have sex. 

Setting the Scene

The first thing you have to do is set the scene of your bedroom where you intend to have sex. Imagine a scene that you think to be sexy. Look to replicate the lights, the candles, the flowers, and other things from the scene you imagined, in your room. Apart from that, you can also play some sensual music in the room that will enhance the entire mood in the room. It is just the perfect way of getting your partner in the mood. 

Go for a Shower Together

Another great way of getting your partner in the mood is taking shower together. If you take your partner to the shower and start a wet make-out session, you can expect her to get horny. While taking the shower, massage her body slowly. Caressing her wet body will make her dripping wet underneath and as a girl, I know this. Most girls will love to have a hot shower with their man. Also, as you and your partner step out of the shower, start the action because by now, she will be ready for it. 

Watch a Hot Scene Together

You have seen many hot scenes along with your partner. Have you ever asked her which one is her favourite? I am not talking about porn scenes. You might have watched many porn scenes with your partner. But, trying to replicate that can be a bit problematic. 

However, you can try to replicate a hot scene from a Hollywood movie easily. It will not be a problem because you will only do that to get your girl in the mood. You can easily set up the lights and flowers and the entire ambience according to the scene. 

Also, don’t forget about the perfumes. Girls love to smell the good perfume from their man’s body. I can tell it because I am a girl and love to do that as well. So, you and your partner can watch a hot movie together which might make her horny as you try to replicate what is being shown in the movie. 

Send Hot Text Messages

You can also send hot messages to your girlfriend or wife if you are away from her and you are feeling horny. You might be at your office and suddenly you can feel a hard underneath. So, you can send her a hot text and wait for her response. 

If she responds positively, then you and your partner can enjoy a hot session of sexting. Also, it will lay the foundation of your make-out later on. As you two indulge in sexting, the fire inside both of you will lit up and burn. 

Once you reach home, you will see your better half ready to take things to the next level. I can tell you from my personal experience, if you can send your girlfriend or wife the exact type of hot message she wants, you will make her dripping went underneath for sure. 

Touch Her Sensually at the Right Place

You know the right place on her body, right? While making out, touch her sensitive parts. For some women, their sensitive part will be their breasts and for some, it can be their ass. So, you should know which parts of your partner’s body are the most sensitive. If you can touch those parts while trying to get her sexually aroused, you will surely find success. Touching these sensitive parts will make her horny immediately. 

The Bottom Line

Finally, only a woman can tell you what a woman needs as a turn on from her man. I, Putri Cinta, have told you everything you need to know while trying to get your partner sexually aroused. So, follow this guide and you will have your girl ready to have sex with you most of the time when you start to feel horny

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