I know many guys who suck at oral sex. They are just ready to get their pants off and stick their shaft in the glory hole. But, if you are doing this, then you are partially satisfying your girlfriend. It is the same for you as well. Oral sex is an integral part of sexual satisfaction. 

You don’t have to be an artist to give oral pleasure to your girlfriend. But, you need a few tips that will help you in improving your oral sex skills. Well, who can give you better tips for oral sex than me? So, here I am with 14 such oral sex, especially, pussy licking tips that will help you guys in giving your girlfriend a mind-blowing orgasm. 

1.   Create the Right Atmosphere

Before you start giving your partner a mind-blowing orgasm, you have to set the stage for her. You need to make sure that you are creating the right atmosphere where she will feel comfortable to cum. So, you have to create the stage in a way that it will be sensual for her. Here are some of the ways you can set such an atmosphere where you will give your girl a mind-blowing orgasm. 

Music

Music can play a huge role in making your girlfriend’s sexual experience one to remember. That is why you should play romantic music to create a sensual atmosphere. Or else, you can play the type of music that your girlfriend enjoys. 

Smell

The smell of the atmosphere can be a make or break when it comes to oral sex. Yes, you want her to smell good. But you also want to make sure that your girlfriend gets a nice smell in her nose while you are doing your work. For that, you can light-up incense sticks or scented candles. 

Taste

As a woman, I know how sensitive women can be on how she would taste. So, if she has a shower before oral sex, she will feel a bit relaxed. But, you can also make her feel good by bringing tasty things that will stimulate her sense of taste. 

2.   Give Her Compliments

I can assure you every woman loves to have compliments from their partner when they are in the mood. So, when you are creating the foundation for her exploding orgasm, you should not forget to compliment her on her looks. You should also compliment on her body which will turn her on massively. That is exactly what you want when you want to make her cum. 

3.   Touch and Feel Her Body

When a woman wants to have oral sex, you have to make sure that the setting is perfect. She wants a comforting touch from you. So, start by feeling her body to make her comfortable. But, you should also look to invest in a good-quality bed sheet and mattress. It will make her more comfortable and your job will become much easier. 

4.   Undress Her Slowly

You must be careful while taking your girlfriend’s clothes off. If you hurry a lot, it will give her a wrong indication. As a result, she might not be able to get into the mood properly. That is why take her clothes off as slowly as possible. Make it sensual; kiss the body part you are exposing after taking the clothes off. Girls love it in that way!

5.   Find the Perfect Position

It is very important to ensure that the position of your pussy licking is perfect. You have to make sure that your girlfriend is in the right position just like you. Remember, you have to work on her pussy for some time. So, you need to know the right positions for that. Here are some positions that you can try with your partner;

Man on Top

Your girlfriend will lie on her back and you will be lying between her pussy. It is the classic position as you will have the access to her pleasure house easily.

Woman on Top

In this position, you will lie down and your girlfriend will stand facing you and her pussy will be in front of your face. She will be in charge of her pleasure by being on top.

From Behind

It is also a very common pose when it comes to pussy licking. She will either be on all fours or lie down on a pillow while raising her back to give access to her pussy. Many girls feel this is the position they enjoy the most. 

69-Pose

Without any doubt, the 69-pose is the most pleasurable oral sex pose of all. It gives you and your partner, pleasure simultaneously. You and your partner will lie down with the head pointing opposite to each other. It is an advanced pose. That is why you should do it only when you get better at oral sex. Check out my other article ‘6 best positions to make her orgasm.’

6.   Massage Her Shoulders

A girl wants to feel relaxed while oral sex. If she has any sort of tension in her mind, she will have a hard time getting an orgasm. That is why you should look to make her feel relaxed. The best way of doing this is through shoulder massage. As you massage her shoulders, your girlfriend will feel relaxed and ready for absorbing oral sex action. 

7.   Kiss Her Passionately

You should not only focus her kissing her mouth and pussy. There are other places in her body that craves for your kiss. So, for fascinating oral sex, you need to take the things a bit further. That is why use your lips and tongue to kiss her from her mouth to pussy. None of the areas should be left untouched by your lips and tongue. 

8.   Spread Her Legs Slowly and Let the Play Begin

In most of the cases, you will be kissing your girlfriend’s inner thighs by now. So, I guess her legs will be slightly open by now. But, you will be taking the charge now. So, gently open her legs because you don’t want to give her any indication that you are in a hurry. 

9.   Use Various Pussy Licking Techniques

You have so many techniques that you can use for pussy licking. Here are some of those techniques that can be very effective to give your girlfriend a fantastic orgasm;

• Kiss the vulva just like you would kiss your girlfriend’s mouth
• Create circles around her clitoris with the tip of her tongue
• Write alphabets or words with the help of your tongue
• Penetrate her pussy with your tongue
• Suck your girlfriend’s clitoris gently
• Use multiple fingers to penetrate her pussy
• Mix up all the techniques; don’t rely on a single technique

10.                 Don’t Forget to Use Sex Toys 

Do you know that sex toys can increase the fun and pleasure in oral sex? Well, I have seen many sex toys that can be very effective. That is why you should always look to purchase some good sex toys, especially those with intense vibrating power to give your girlfriend a mind-blowing orgasm. Check out my ‘24 best Toys for couples in 2021′ for more toys.

11.                 Play with Her Butt and Breasts

If you want to make her happy orally, then only focusing on her pussy will not be a great idea. You should also focus on her breasts and butt. As you know, these are sensitive spots in her body. So, it will stimulate her senses wonderfully. 

12.                 Breathing is Important

Sometimes during the foreplay, you will pretend to kiss her body. But, what you will be doing is getting your lips closer to her, and make her feel your breath. Your warm breath will make her go wild. That is why breathing can be a great way of getting her ready for oral sex. 

13.                 Give Her a Penis Massage on Her Vagina

By now, while getting her ready for the oral game, your penis will get hard. Now, take the penis in your hand and rub your shaft on her pussy. In this way, she will feel your manhood and get wetter. It will set her up nicely for great oral sex.

14.                 What about Arousal Oils?

If you go to a sex shop, you will find various arousal oils. These oils will give your girlfriend a nice tingling sensation in her vagina. It will aggravate the process of her orgasm. So, if you haven’t used this oil, you should definitely give it a go. It will make your task of making your girlfriend cum a lot easier. 

The Bottom Line

Finally, these are 14 brilliant tips that I feel will help you in giving your girlfriend a nice orgasm. So, make sure you follow these tips that they can be a game-changer for your sex life. You will become much better in oral sex by keeping these tips in mind. Thus, enjoy your oral sex with your girlfriend now like never before. 

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