Even though I am a woman, I know how men feel when they don’t get a blowjob from a sexy woman. I would be mad as well if I am in bed with a hot hunk and he refuses to lick my pussy. Now, men need to understand that a woman refuses to suck their dicks due to many reasons;

• For some women, giving a blowjob is degrading
• Some women are prejudiced not to give a BJ
• Many would not do it because of the bush
• Others would possibly reject the idea of giving BJ because of hygiene

However, you cannot blame women solely for not giving blowjobs. Men are equally responsible for not getting enough blowjobs from their wife or girlfriend. What I think the problem is men don’t know how to ask for BJs. I have experienced this with men. 

Also, even if you ask for a BJ, whether a girl will give it or not will depend on how you ask her. You need to approach the entire situation very carefully. So, what if you know from a girl’s perspective how you can get more BJs from your wife or girlfriend? It will be the perfect way of getting what you want from your significant half.

Therefore, in this article, I will tell you how your wife or girlfriend will be ready to give more blowjobs from the perspective of a woman. As you know, a woman can understand a woman better than any other man. So, what I will tell you will surely work and you will see the results faster than you can even imagine. Thus, read this article entirely.

Start with a Conversation

In a relationship, it is important to have nice conversations with your partner to make the relationship last for a long time. So, when it comes to getting more blowjobs from your partner, you should also start with a conversation. 

Now, don’t even think that you can convince her through a conversation to give you blowjobs if she had already rejected the idea. If you carry on the discussion, it will end up in a heated debate. So, you must not get to that route. 

So, what I am trying to tell you is have a general conversation about oral sex. Tell her how oral sex can give her pleasure. Talk to her from her side so that she gets convinced that you care for her. Many women see oral sex as a sign of male aggression. 

But, when you talk to her about the pleasure she could experience, she will realize that you want to give her something different. In such a frame of mind, she will be open to discuss newer things. That is when you should also express your wish, but not in an authoritative tone.

It will surely convince her to listen to what you have to say. Don’t expect her to start giving you BJs instantly. But now she will be open to such a discussion with a better state of mind than ever. 

Maintain Hygiene

One of the main reasons why most women don’t want to give blowjobs is hygiene problems. Many men don’t maintain hygiene the way their woman would want. Now, I am not saying that every woman would want to have a smell of soap when she takes your dick inside her mouth. 

I know many girls who love that combination of salty, sweaty, and a little bit of taste of urine in their mouth from their man’s dick. Of course, your private parts will be among the dirtiest parts of your body. So, keeping them clean will be good for you and also, for the one giving you blowjobs. 

Now, here I am giving you a solution, take your partner to the shower and convince her to give you a blowjob. You can rest assured she will never have any problem due to hygiene and smell under the shower. This will be an exciting foreplay act and you and your wife or girlfriend will enjoy it a lot. 

The Bush Factor

When it comes to blowjobs, the bush is an important factor. Most women hate seeing bush down below of their men. The feeling of hair sticking to their tongue while they play with their man’s asset is disgusting to some women. 

But, you should also know that some women like to see the bush in the main part of their men. So, as far as the bush factor goes, many women have different preferences. And, you need to know what your wife or girlfriend prefers. 

So, while talking to her about oral sex and blowjobs, try to find out whether she likes a bush or not. It will elevate your chances of getting BJs from your better half. 

Choose Words Carefully

I have seen most men turn to dirty talks once they start receiving blowjobs. The words like, ‘slut’ ‘whore’ ‘cunt’ and all such words come out of their minds to compliment their women. But, do you know whether your girl likes to hear such words or not?

For some women, such words can be very degrading. So, it will be a complete turn off for them. If you say something that your wife or girlfriend hates while she is blowing you off, you can rest assured it can be the last time you are getting the blowjob. 

But, what you can do at such a stage is just change your words. You can say how good it feels to have your dick inside her mouth. If you use cleaner words instead of saying something humiliating, your wife or girlfriend will be happy to hear it and will feel encouraged to give you more. 

However, I know some women who just enjoy such dirty words while they are giving blowjobs. Also, some men don’t have any clue on how to talk dirty with their girlfriend or wife. So, if your partner enjoys dirty talks, then make sure you learn how to do it. Without a doubt, it will turn her on completely. 

Have a Hard Start

You might have a wish that your girlfriend or wife will make your flaccid dick erect by putting it inside her mouth. But, your partner is giving you a blowjob for the very first time. So, she will be tensed because she has no prior experience of giving a blowjob.

So, it isn’t your duty to make her job a little easier? What about giving her an already erect dick to blow or a semi-erect dick? It will make her job a little easier. Once she becomes comfortable at blowing you, she will then make your flaccid dick erect with her mouth. 

Don’t Replicated Porn Scenes

In various porn scenes, you will see a man is fucking a woman’s mouth. Yes, it might seem very hot, but many women would not like a dick going deep inside their throat. Gagging is a popular element in porn. However, most women would hate to gag with a dick inside their mouth. 

So, you cannot replicate porn scenes with your partner while having BJs from her. Remember, most women have their style of giving BJs. No matter what, you cannot force them to do something that they don’t want to do like gagging. It will discourage them from giving a BJ the next time.

Don’t Be Selfish

You know that when you take something from someone, you should do your best to give something in return as well. So, if you expect your girlfriend or wife to give you a crème de la crème blowjob, ask yourself what have you done to get it? Did you spend enough time below her?

You should never act selfishly. If you want to have blowjobs from your girlfriend or wife, then spend more time down below her to give her pleasure. The more you give her pleasure the more pleasure you will have while having blowjobs from your partner.

Try Lubricants and Creams

You have to do everything you can to make sure your girlfriend or wife is having fun while blowing you off. Now, as you know some women don’t like the taste of the dick while blowing. If your partner faces the same problem, then you can try some lubricants or creams that are edible. 

You can apply such an edible lubricant or cream on your dick before your partner puts it in her mouth. Now, you can also look to apply the cream or lubricant of her favourite colour. It will surely bring more fun element to the blowjob and you and your partner will love it. 

The Bottom Line

Finally, if you want to get more blowjobs from your girlfriend or wife, then these are some of the things you need to do. You can rest assured these things will be effective because a girl is telling you to do so. After applying these simple tips, your girlfriend or wife will not hesitate to give you more BJs.